A Los Angeles court has barred an obsessed fan of “Gossip Girl” star Blake Lively from contacting her and her mother. The honey-haired actress got a restraining order against Sergei Mifle after he repeatedly contacted her mom, claiming Lively was going through a “rough period” and he was going to “help her heal,” according to court records. On Feb. 1, the show’s security said they saw Mifle “lurking around the set all day watching her.” Mifle, who is originally from Russia, but now lives in Jersey, called the star’s mom on Feb. 6, telling her “I have to help her, she’s troubled.”
Elaine Lively told him to send an email, which he did, writing that he has “deep concern for your daughter,” and offered to help. She received two more voicemail messages and two more emails. The mother said that she found a Feb. 8 voicemail threatening because of his urgency."You can contact me (unintelligible) so we can talk and ah um you know before it is too late, so I'm uh I would really appreciate if it uh Blake could contact me and um I just wanted to say if she's um afraid uh if she's afraid she I promise, I promise, I will um act, act very, very peacefully, and uh she'll just have a, she'll just have a wonderful time,"according to a transcript. Lively, 24, got the restraining order in Los Angeles County Court, saying she and her mother felt unsafe. Reached by phone Mifle said he felt compelled to reach out to the star again.
"I don't want to get arrested. But the restraining order is ridiculous. I will stay away, but there will come a time when I'm going to need her. I just want to talk to her. I like her very much," he said. He said he did not wanted her to suffer the same fate of other stars. "I don't know her personally, but I know her, and I don't want to see her go the way of Lindsay Lohan. Her mind seems set on self-destruction." He said he's not under any medical care.
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